Elif Shafak

The Forty Rules
of Love

A fan tribute. All rules belong to their author.

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Rule 1

How we see God is a direct reflection of how we see ourselves. If God brings to…

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Rule 2

The Path to the Truth is a labor of the heart, not of the head. Make your heart…

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Rule 3

You can study God through everything and everyone in the universe, because God i…

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Rule 4

Intellect and love are made of different materials. Intellect ties people in kno…

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Rule 5

Most of the problems of the world stem from linguistic mistakes and simple misun…

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Rule 6

Loneliness and solitude are two different things. When you are lonely, it is eas…

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Rule 7

Whatever happens in your life, no matter how troubling things might seem, do not…

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Rule 8

Patience does not mean to endure passively. It means to look at the end of a pro…

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Rule 9

East, west, south, or north makes little difference. No matter what your destina…

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Rule 10

The midwife knows that when there is no pain, the way for the baby cannot be ope…

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Rule 11

The quest for Love changes us. There is no seeker among those who search for Lov…

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Rule 12

There are more fake gurus and false teachers in this world than the number of st…

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Rule 13

Try not to resist the changes that come your way. Instead let life live through…

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Rule 14

God is busy with the completion of your work, both outwardly and inwardly. He is…

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Rule 15

It's easy to love a perfect God, unblemished and infallible that He is. What is…

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Rule 16

Real filth is the one inside. The rest simply washes off. There is only one type…

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Rule 17

The whole universe is contained within a single human being—you. Everything that…

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Rule 18

If you want to change the way others treat you, you should first change the way…

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Rule 19

Fret not where the road will take you. Instead concentrate on the first step. Th…

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Rule 20

We were all created in His image, and yet we were each created different and uni…

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Rule 21

When a true lover of God goes into a tavern, the tavern becomes his chamber of p…

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Rule 22

Life is a temporary loan, and this world is nothing but a sketchy imitation of R…

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Rule 23

The human being has a unique place among God's creation. 'I breathed into him of…

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Rule 24

There are four levels to each and every truth. The first is the sharia — the out…

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Rule 25

Hell is in the here and now. So is heaven. Quit worrying about hell or dreaming…

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Rule 26

The universe is one being. Everything and everyone is interconnected through an…

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Rule 27

This world is like a snowy mountain that echoes your voice. Whatever you speak,…

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Rule 28

The past is an interpretation. The future is an illusion. The world does not mov…

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Rule 29

Destiny doesn't mean that your life has been strictly predetermined. Therefore,…

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Rule 30

The true Sufi is such that even when he is unjustly accused, attacked, and conde…

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Rule 31

If you want to strengthen your faith, you will need to soften inside. For your f…

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Rule 32

Nothing should stand between yourself and God. Not imams, priests, rabbis, or an…

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Rule 33

While everyone in this world strives to get somewhere and become someone, only t…

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Rule 34

Submission does not mean being weak or passive. It leads to neither fatalism nor…

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Rule 35

In this world, it is not similarities or regularities that take us a step forwar…

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Rule 36

This world is erected upon the principle of reciprocity. Neither a drop of kindn…

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Rule 37

God is a meticulous clockmaker. So precise is His order that everything on earth…

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Rule 38

It is never too late to ask yourself, 'Am I ready to change the life I am living…

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Rule 39

While the parts change, the whole always remains the same. For every thief who d…

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Rule 40

A life without love is of no account. Don't ask yourself what kind of love you s…